1] She has to care for me the same way I care for her.
2] She has to be witty.
3] She has to be beautiful to me, if no one else.
4] She has to read a lot.
5] She has to write well.
6] She has to be a total freak.
7] She has to have a slightly crude sense of humor.
8] She has to enjoy video games.
9] She has to be musically talented.
10] She can't like Twilight. She doesn't have to hate it, she just can't like it.